Northern Ireland! Belfast!

Belfast, a city long plagued by Troubles, might not be high on your list of travel destinations, but maybe it should be? Not because it’s particularly beautiful though it does have a lot to offer, but simply because you can, and that in itself is a big deal. Having chosen Belfast for it’s relatively close proximity to the Giant’s Causeway, a UNESCO World Heritage site, we had no idea just how much we would enjoy the visit.

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In fact our visit to Belfast and the Antrim coast of Northern Ireland were probably the two most impactful days of our six-week journey through Ireland, the United Kingdom and Europe! This speaks volumes as our itinerary was filled with some of the world’s most famous and beautiful places, but travel isn’t just about tasting the food, enjoying the beauty and learning the history. It’s also about experiencing the culture through interactions with the people, seeing how they live their everyday lives and learning to be open to different points of view. Our visit to Northern Ireland was all of the above and more!

The Troubles?

#roadclosedTo better understand Belfast it’s important to understand at least a little bit about The Troubles. Fueled by earlier events in history The Troubles took place in the mid to later part of the 20th century. Though there are many factors, one key issue was whether or not Northern Ireland, which had become separated from the Republic of Ireland, would continue to be a part of the United Kingdom, or would/should it once again become part of the Republic. I don’t mean to oversimplify, but in a nutshell, many Protestants consider themselves British and have no wish to leave the UK, while many Catholics consider themselves Irish and wish to once again become part of what is now the Republic of Ireland.

I’m no expert on what is a very complicated situation in Northern Ireland, and rather than spend a lot of time paraphrasing what I learned online and during our tour, what I really hope to share with you are our personal experiences in the city and with the people we met there.

On the Edge of Peace

Northern Ireland BelfastAs a child I remember hearing about the troubles in Northern Ireland and Belfast. The nightly news painting a picture of a city plagued by terrorism, unsafe and divided. This was a place I was sure I would never visit. It never even crossed my mind. Yet here we were! Just the very idea that things have progressed enough for our visit to safely take place was so meaningful! The people we met and spent time with were some of the kindest and most pleasant of our entire trip.

Northern Ireland BelfastThe Troubles officially ended in 1998, but during our visit it became immediately clear to us that the peace, which exists today, is a tenuous one at best. Belfast is still very much a city divided, and when I say divided I mean quite literally. Walls or “peace lines” as they are known, some as high as 25 feet, separate the Catholic and Protestant neighborhoods. A number of these walls were built AFTER the 1998 peace agreement.

Northern Ireland BelfastMany of the peace walls have gates which are at times staffed by police. They are open for passage during the day, but are closed at nights and in some locations on the weekends as well.

Northern Ireland Belfast

So, Is It Safe?

#PaddyCampbellsBelfastFamousBlackCabToursWhile I am a big proponent of stepping off the beaten path I’ve also learned that at times hiring a guide is best and this is definitely the case in a city like Belfast. After doing a bit of research I discovered the very highly rated Paddy Campbell’s Belfast Famous Black Cab Tours! I just can’t say enough about them! From the first email communication to the drop off at our hotel at the end of the day and every moment in between it was a perfect experience! No wonder they’re number one on Trip Advisor!

Our guide, Tom, picked us up at our hotel promptly at 9am. We piled in his “black” taxicab and set off for a full day* tour! He came prepared with snacks (chocolates and crisps) and bottled water for the four of us!

Northern Ireland BelfastTom, born and raised in Belfast, was a wealth of information. He drove us through the city explaining the history of Belfast, the Troubles, and the peace walls. We drove through both catholic and protestant neighborhoods easily identified by the different flags flying high outside their homes. Catholics, fly Irish flags, while the Protestants fly British flags…We got out at the wall and signed our names and wrote messages of peace.

Tom did a great job explaining The Troubles. He encouraged us to ask questions and explained everything in a friendly, fair and impartial manner.  He waited until after the tour was over to tell us the more personal details about himself so as not to create a bias.

One can only imagine what it must have been like growing up in the midst of so much turmoil, no matter what side you stood for, especially because to us the city still seems fraught with so much tension. As tourists we never felt endangered exactly, it’s just that our feelings about Belfast changed dramatically after the tour.

Northern Ireland BelfastIt’s hard not to form opinions when you see homes with cages covering them for protection from the debris thrown over the top of the walls. Political murals depicting loss of life or celebrating each side’s “heroes” are prominently displayed on the side of apartments and many other buildings throughout Belfast. In fact there are over 2800 of these murals and multiple bonfires as large as city blocks are erected all over the city every July 12th and burned within spitting distance of residential homes. There are numerous parades through the streets, which demonstrate the clear division between the two sides. These things are all happening TODAY! Now!

Northern Ireland Belfast

Hearing about the Troubles from a first hand account really drove home how little we knew about the situation. Everything we knew came from American news sources and hearing the story from a different point of view really drove home the idea that no matter how open minded we believe ourselves to be, we rarely get the entire story making it difficult to have a truly informed opinion.

Troubled, fascinating, and surprising, this is Belfast.

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Of course there is so much more to Belfast than it’s Troubles. Though the city seemed to have an industrial feel about it, there were many architecturally beautiful buildings, the people were some of the friendliest we encountered and we enjoyed a number of good restaurants during our stay. Belfast was a pleasant surprise and it’s troubled and fascinating history had an unexpected and profound effect on all of us.

 

*For the purpose of this post I am focusing only on the city portion of our tour, but stay tuned for a future post about our visit to the incredible Antrim Coast!

 

Ireland! Along the Way… Castles & Cliffs!

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Where is: halfway between point A and point B and boasts a large medieval castle with beautiful views? If you guessed our next “along the way stop” on our journey around Ireland, then you guessed right! Of course it wouldn’t be right if we didn’t get a late  start and losing the car keys didn’t help, but once we got all that sorted*, we were off! As expected the drive was beautiful and we saw many tower house ruins along with the ever present cows and sheep!

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King John’s Castle

Along the way from Killarney to Galway… Limerick, Ireland

111 km from Killarney

#kingjohnscastleWe weren’t sure what to expect at King Johns’ Castle, but I do love a good castle and we had to stop for lunch anyway so why not just eat lunch at the castle? Although we had limited time in Limerick and I can’t speak to the city itself, I highly recommend King John’s Castle, especially if you’re traveling with kids!

Ireland Limerick

I loved that it had the traditional castle look compete with ramparts and crenelations and the kids really enjoyed exploring the castle and its many interactive displays and activities. They both participated in a scavenger hunt which became a friendly competition between them! I will mention that the castle cafe turned out to be pretty terrible as they ran out of food and the line was painfully slow, notice I didn’t say long. So you don’t go there for the food…

However, the views from the castle ramparts were beautiful and I lucked out and saw them just before the torrential rains caught us! Getting to the carpark was an adventure in itself! Just as we left the castle the sky opened up and literally drenched us! It didn’t help that Tim and I each ran to the wrong (right?) sides of the car and then had to switch sides. Even with the heat blasting it was two hours before we dried off!

Always one to go along with my photo antics, Simon was kind enough to pose humor me and we I had some fun with the castle’s many props!

The Cliffs of Moher

ireland cliffs of moherLeaving Limerick with plenty of daylight to spare we set off for the Cliffs of Moher and crossed our fingers in the hopes that the skies would be clear by the time we arrived. Believe it or not, these magnificent cliffs which rise vertically almost 700 feet straight out of the sea and stretch for 5 miles are not the tallest cliffs in Ireland, however, they are the most famous and a definite must see if you’re visiting the West Coast of the Emerald Isle.

The Cliffs of Moher

Along the way from Limerick to Galway… Just south of the Village of Doolin in County Clare, Ireland

78 km from Limerick

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ireland cliffs of moherLucky for us the skies were clear when we arrived although it was very windy! The weather is never boring in Ireland! The views from the cliff top walkways near the visitor center were breathtaking, but judging by the silly antics of the boys I could tell they were over it within just a few minutes. It had already been a long day and in hindsight visiting at the end of an already full day was probably not the best idea.

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There is a walk along the cliff tops , but we were running out of daylight and weren’t really dressed for a hike, so we satisfied ourselves with a good long look over the edge and then spent time in the visitor center. The center is fairly new and very well done with interactive exhibits, a restaurant and a gift shop.

ireland cliffs of moher

ireland cliffs of moher

If you’re looking for a slightly different view point, you can walk up O’Brien’s Tower. We discovered these wedding rings on the tower bulletin board left there by a woman honoring her nana’s last wish… very sweet.

ireland cliffs of moher

Next Stop: Galway!

*Seems like for us Killarney and transportation just didn’t mix!

Ireland! The Ring of Kerry!

Seven days into our 12 day tour of the Emerald Isle and we were finally feeling somewhat normal, at least as far as the jet lag was concerned, so we decided to try something new, getting up early! We had it in our minds to see the Ring of Kerry, a 179 km circular route around the Iveragh Peninsula, in County Kerry in the South Western part of Ireland. In order to make this happen, in just one day, sleeping in wasn’t an option.

Ireland Ring of KerryWith it’s endless winding roads, craggy peaks, and sweeping coastline views it’s no wonder that the Ring of Kerry is considered to be one of Ireland’s most beautiful destinations! If you’re planning a visit and need a home base you might consider Killarney it’s a very friendly and quaint little town with easy access to the Ring road

Getting Around The Ring of Kerry

Ireland Ring of Kerry

While driving your own vehicle is a viable option the route is very curvy and their can be a lot of traffic, so again we opted to try something new, we signed up for a tour, on a large bus! In hindsight, what was I thinking?!?! I guess I was thinking that Tim had been doing a lot of driving and would be doing quite a bit more in coming weeks, so maybe letting someone else take the “wheel” for a day couldn’t hurt. Like I said… What was I thinking?

Ireland Ring of Kerry

The Good

Overall we really enjoyed the scenery and the tour guide’s commentary was funny as well as informative! Our friendly driver, Billy, remembered my name since you know… Hilary is a pretty famous name these days… the tour company was Wild Way Kerry Tours/O’Conner Auto Tours.

Ireland Ring of KerryWe passed by this amazing church on our way out of town and then we were off!

Ireland Ring of Kerry

Ireland Ring of KerryOur first stop was in Glenbeigh at the Red Fox Bar and Restaurant where we sampled traditional Irish Coffee and explored the Kerry Bog Village an 18th century famine village.

We watched sheep dog demonstrations in Kells, which we all loved! This was definitely a highlight of the day! The relationship between the dogs and their master was really impressive and highly complex with a serious of sounds and whistles individual to each dog.

We drove through Cahersiveen and Waterville, with it’s fabulous views of Skellig Michael. A place I would very much like to see up close one day, but advance planning is a must do. Fun fact: The most recent Star Wars movie was partially filmed here!

Ireland Ring of Kerry

Ireland Ring of Kerry

Ireland Ring of Kerry

Our lunch spot, the Scarriff Inn, was located in Caherdaniel, which had absolutely breathtaking views, I took photos, but it’s truly one of those “you had to be there places.”

Ireland Ring of Kerry

Ireland Ring of Kerry

Driving through Caherdaniel, Sneem, and Blackwater, we saw ice blue waters, white sands and endless green hills before arriving in Kenmare, where we saw Molls Gap and visited the Avoca shop.

Ireland Ring of Kerry

Ireland Ring of Kerry

Ireland Ring of Kerry

Ireland Ring of Kerry

Our last stops were in Kilorglin and the Killarney National Park, Muckross where we stopped for a photo at the Ladies View named for a visit from Queen Victoria and her ladies.

Ireland Ring of Kerry

The Bad

The bus was too big, too bouncy and too full of people. Tim decided to let Elliot choose our seats and like most kids, he chose the back of the bus. BIG mistake! Each and every time the bus stopped we had to wait on the entire bus to empty before we could disembark meaning we got almost no time to enjoy the views at each stop. Lesson learned!

With all those people on the bus, it was too warm and too smelly. Although food wasn’t permitted on the bus, apparently some passengers felt they weren’t required to follow this rule and the smell of their snacks permeated the entire bus.

The Ugly

Ireland Ring of KerryAs it turns out sitting in the back of the bus wasn’t a great idea for another reason… Simon felt slightly carsick the entire time, which by the way was seven hours! I must admit my stomach didn’t love all those winding roads either…

Hindsight is 20/20

Although we saw a lot of breathtaking scenery, in hindsight joining a large group of people on a tour bus for seven hours around winding roads might not have been the best idea in the world. However, now we know!  If unlike me, you decide to drive your own vehicle than consider driving anti-clockwise, as that will go a long way in reducing the amount of tour bus traffic you experience.

After a long day on the bus we decided treats were in order!

As you can see Simon recovered nicely and was up early the next morning and ready for our next adventure! Next stop: Limerick!

Ireland Ring of Kerry

A Visit to Blarney Castle Cork Ireland

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Cork Blarney CastleThe Emerald Isle, where we almost kissed the Blarney Stone in Cork (yes, almost…), walked atop the parapets of King John’s Castle in Limerick, stood at the very edge of the Cliffs of Moher on the far Western Coast, and felt our mortality while standing inside a 5000 year old monolithic passage tomb at Newgrange! Not to mention the many other amazing sights “along the way” during our recent visit to The Republic of Ireland!

Dublin Rental Car AgencyWith no shortage of interesting must see places, manageable driving distances between cities, and a long wish list of sights to see in a relatively short period of time we decided driving would be a great way to try and see it all! Picking points of interest about 2 or 3 hours into the route on driving days would give the kids a break from the car and all of us the opportunity to see even more of the beautiful Emerald Isle!

The Blarney Stone

Along the way from Dublin to Killarney… Cork, Ireland 259k from Dublin

The first leg of our road trip around Eire was from Dublin to Killarney, and our midpoint stop was Cork! Home of the famous Blarney Stone located in Blarney Castle! I won’t pretend this is not an incredibly touristy destination, it absolutely is. For that reason Tim wasn’t all that keen on a stop here, but as I always say, “these places are touristy for a reason.” Sometimes good and sometimes bad, but I’m happy to say we all loved our visit, even Tim!

#blarneystoneFor more than 200 years people from all walks of life have climbed to the top of Blarney Castle and kissed the Stone hoping to gain the gift of eloquence. After some debate, Simon and I decided that although the Blarney Stone is the world’s germiest tourist attraction* we too would join the ranks, brave the germs, and the incredibly long lines and kiss the stone. After all who couldn’t use a little more eloquence, and besides how could we come all this way and not at least give it a try?

Cork Blarney Castle

Cork Blarney Castle

All of this sounds easy, but in order to kiss the Blarney Stone one has to lay down on their back and lean backwards over a large opening at the very top of the Castle’s parapets. What I should say is that Simon and I attempted to “kiss” the Stone, but honestly it was so far out, did I mention the very large opening, and the drop is so far down… Even with assistance from the Castle staff neither Simon nor I could reach it without leaning WAY WAY over… and really, don’t I already have the gift of eloquence? Oh well… we almost kissed the Blarney Stone!

Cork Blarney Castle

Don’t despair lovely readers, our visit wasn’t for naught! The climb up through the Castle to kiss the stone provided lovely views of the surrounding countryside…

The Castle grounds were beautiful, much more so than we expected, with extensive gardens including a poison garden, creeks, and walkways.

We spent about two hours exploring and taking pictures but easily could have spent two more…

Stay tuned for our next stop on our road trip around Ireland…Killarney and Ring of Kerry!

 

*We’ve now visited #1 and #2 of the world’s germiest attractions! Read about our visit to Seattle’s Gum Wall located in the Pike Place Market!

 

Happy Anniversary Hilarystyle.me!

Today marks the One Year Anniversary of Hilarystyle.me, and I’m pretty excited about this milestone! You might be surprised to read that putting myself “out there” isn’t always easy and pushing the Publish button that first time, was not just a little bit nerve-wracking. Many things were going through my mind: would anyone be interested in this blog, care what I have to say, find my advice on travel, fashion, or fun useful? I pushed it anyway, faced my fears and… Wallah!

Here WE are one year later and apparently, the answer is a big YES! I am definitely proud of myself, but more importantly, I am grateful to all of you for following, reading, and commenting week after week!

Hilarystlyle.me by the numbers!

The #1 post on hilarystyle.me is:

Making a TsumTsum Birthday Party with well over 6,000 views!

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2 is the number of times I pressed PUBLISH before I was ready!

Whoops!

3 surprising things I learned in my first year of blogging:

  1. I love writing!
  2. Even after a year, pushing the “publish” button intimidates me a little bit.
  3. People are actually interested!

Top 10 posts

  1. Making a Tsum Tsum Birthday Party!
    Tsum Tsum
  2. Capitola by the Sea! A Girls Weekend!
  3. Traveling Hilarystyle!
    Edinburgh Castle
  4. Fashion Favorites: Walking in my Shoes… Travel Shoes That is!
    #Campersred
  5. Mom Stuff: Ripping Off the Bandage!
    #bandages
  6. Crazy Hair Day! Bad Hair Day! No Hair Day?
  7. New York! #837NYC!
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  8. Mom Stuff! Part one: Whoops!whoops
  9. I. Am. A. Runner.
    #thefinishline
  10. Packing… What to Wear Over There!Packing

87 different countries have visited hilarystyle.me! 

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Here are the top 10:

  1. United States
  2. United Kingdom
  3. Canada
  4. Singapore
  5. Mexico
  6. Indonesia
  7. Malta
  8. Portugal
  9. Germany
  10. Philippines

Total posts: 110

I’ve written on average two posts about fashion, travel, parties, projects, mom stuff and fun each week!

Total followers: 736

That’s 736 awesome people like you who find what I have to say interesting week after week! Thank you!

Total unique visitors: 9,898

This amazing number is growing each and every day and I can hardly believe that my little idea, has grown so much in the past year!

Total Views: 29, 996

Based on these numbers, some of you like to come back again and again! I hope you’ll keep it up as I’m just wrapping up six amazing weeks of travel around Europe, and I’ve got lots of fun tips, photos and adventures to share with all of you!

THANK YOU!

Here is a sneak peak from my recent trip to Bruge!Bruges Canal

 

 

 

 

 

Where In The World?

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#worldmapIn just a week Tim, the boys, and I will be boarding a flight and the start of a six week tour. We’ve been planning for months and with the school year coming to a close, I’m finally starting to get excited!

Although, I do plan to bring my computer, I have a feeling my regular blogging schedule will be a little less reliable. After all, I’ll be SO busy gathering new information to share with all of you!

So, where are we going this time ?

Though our boys are great little travelers it never hurts to add in a little something special to help keep it interesting and over the years we’ve come up with some pretty fun ideas! For example, Lego Batman has joined us on more than one outing, sampling everything from cocoa to sake and posing in front of many of the worlds most popular sites.

This time we thought it would be fun to include all of you! So, for the next six weeks it will be up to you to guess, where in the world, we are!

Each week we will be posting photos and clues to the hilarystyle Instagram account. These photos will feature something from wherever we happen to be, including monuments, food items, and close up details featuring something from somewhere. Our hope is that you’ll try and work out where we are! Their might even be a prize for the person with the most correct guesses…

What do you say? Are you Game?

Let’s Play:

  1. If you aren’t already, start following me on Instagram at hilarystyleme.
  2. Keep your eye out for photos and clues.
  3. Make your guesses!
  4. Keep your eyes out for all of the answers upon our return in mid to late July!

Let’s Practice!

Whereintheworld

I’m almost 1000 years old

I used to be a zoo

I’m still in use today