Japan! Kawaii Means Cute & Other Japanese Cultural Phenomena!

#kawaiiBeyond unique scenery, ancient temples, and the many bright lights of Tokyo you’ll find that Japan is overflowing with other fascinating cultural experiences. Toilets with self lifting lids, Kawaii or Japan’s cute culture, and unusual snack foods are just a few! We found surprise and delight around just about every corner!

Kawaii

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The word Kawaii means cute, adorable, or lovable and is a major part of Japanese culture! It’s everywhere, painted on airplanes, bank logos, entertainment, clothing, food, toys, and even affects personal appearance and mannerisms.

Kawaii is also a very popular fashion look! Unlike many other cultures where women often want to look more glamorous or sexy, many young women are wanting to appear just the opposite. Trying hard to look and sound as sweet, young and cute as possible.

Takeshita Street, located in the Harajuku district of Tokyo, is a pedestrian street and a great place to see many examples of trendy Japanese fashion. Wandering around you might see Sweet Lolita, Gothic Lolita, Kawaii, and Cosplay. Many of these styles which seem more like costumes to Americans are not unusual as everyday attire for the young people in Japan. You’ll see women wearing what look to be little girl dresses complete with lace collars, petticoats and even parasols. I especially loved seeing the fun makeup and accessories and have even adopted a few of the fun ideas I saw during my visit!

Other popular things to do on Takeshita Street besides “seeing and being seen” are shopping and eating crepes. Though there are many crepe shops, the lines can be long. The crowds of Harajuku Girls are thick and they are moving fast. The day we visited It was raining incredibly hard and every single person had an umbrella! The moment we stepped into the street it was like being swept up into the tide and it was all we could do to “get over” to the side again and catch our breath! Not only was this an incredibly fun place to visit, it was truly a moment I will never forget!

Hello Kitty


#peekabookittyHello Kitty is everywhere in Japan! All the places you’d expect her to be like toy stores and clothing shops and many places you wouldn’t. Ancient medieval temples and shrines, yep, she’s there! Lingerie shop, check! Florists, food carts, the side of airplanes, she’s there too. She even has her very own shop in the airport. There isn’t anything you can’t get with Hello Kitty on it.

Pokemon

#gottacatchemallOf course with two boys in our house there was no way we were going all the way to Japan, the birthplace of Pokemon, and not going to the actual Pokemon store. There’s really not too much to say about this except that it was a dream come true for my boys and as I’ve mentioned in previous posts, we always try to make sure the boys get to pick some activities of their own while on vacation. Of course we picked up some Pokemon swag while there, Pokemon Pocky, a new lunch box, various coloring books and spent quite a long time just browsing around. If you have boys or girls who like Pokemon, good luck getting out of this one! 😉

Kit Kats

#kittokattoThe Japanese people love Kit Kat bars in fact believe it or not they are the number one candy in Japan! The name Kit Kat sounds very similar to a Japanese saying, “Kitto Katsu” or “Kitto Katto” which is a good luck term meaning “you will surely win” and it is often said to students before a big exam. The Kit Kat bar is so popular that not only does it come in all sorts of unusual and regional specialty flavors, but recently an actual Kit Kat shop was opened in Tokyo. The little shop is located on the dessert floor of the department store Seibu. They have limited flavors available at the shop so if you’re on the hunt for unusual flavors you might fare better at convenience stores or other shops which sell candy.

The boys and I decided that it would be fun to bring back as many flavors as we could find! We were on a mission! By the time our trip ended we had located 8 different flavors: cinnamon, green tea, strawberry, cheesecake, dark, chilli pepper, pudding, and sakura green tea. We brought them back and had our friends over for a Kit Kat tasting party! Everyone was pretty surprised at how much they liked all the flavors. The two favorites were pudding which we actually heated in the toaster oven and strawberry. Tim occasionally travels to Japan for business and at times brings us back new flavors. Our most recent tasting was rum raisin.

Vending machines

#vendingmachineseverywhereThere are more than 5.52 million vending machines in Japan! 5.52 MILLION! WOW! That’s one per every 23 people! Most of them sell drinks, but you can buy just about anything from them! We saw a bread vending machine which was pretty weird and cool! Some restaurants require that you choose your entree from a vending machine and then bring your ticket to the server. This isn not an indication of how good the food will be!

A few days after arriving in Japan we realized that not only is getting food “to go” not really a thing, but there aren’t really any trash cans on the sidewalks. It’s considered rude to walk around eating and drinking so you’ll find that most vending machines have trashcans next to them as well as a spot to stand and drink or eat your purchase.

Lost In Translation

It’s a good chance that when you’re in a place where there is almost no english spoken or written you’re going to find a few places where things were “lost in translation”. We didn’t see too many examples of this, but we had a good natured laugh at  the few we saw which were pretty tame.

Japanese Toilets

#supertoiletJapanese toilets are really quite something and while I don’t have any personal photos of this particular subject, it is definitely worth mentioning! We did encounter a few places with squat toilets where there was little more than a hole in the ground (this seemed to be more common in men’s rooms as I never saw it), most of the time the toilets went way beyond standard and bordered on downright fancy. Some even had sensors that knew when you entered the room and the lid would automatically raise, while others had buttons for “fake flushing sounds” and also doubled as bidets complete with dryers. Even the public restrooms in the parks we visited had heated seats. I’m not sure I need all those other bells and whistles, but (no pun intended) I sure appreciated the heated seats!

Face masks

When visiting Japan you’ll notice that many people wear surgical face masks in public. When we first arrived it seemed very obvious and foreign to us, but after a few days we got used to seeing it everywhere and it became a normal. There are many theories about why the Japanese people wear them. We asked our Kyoto guide Kenzo and he gave a number of reasons, allergies, the spread of germs, and not wanting to be social were just a few.

Japan! Tokyo… No Wasabi Kudasai!

#theshymountain

With over 37 million people Tokyo is the most populated metropolitan area in the world! It is beyond vast! You might imagine with that many people it would be loud, hectic or dirty, but it’s exactly the opposite! Unlike many big cities I’ve visited you don’t hear horns honking on the roads or see garbage on the sidewalk, and although there is definitely hustle and bustle the people are incredibly respectful of one another. There was an overall feeling of nice pretty much everywhere we went!

Tokyo is broken up into 35 Special Wards and each ward is then broken up into districts or neighborhoods each with their own name and distinct feel. I found that the lines were blurred when talking about some of the more notable wards or districts. for example, Shinjuku is a Special Ward and a district/neighborhood… We had the opportunity to stay in two different neighborhoods during our visit, Shinjuku and Ginza, and visited many more!

Shinjuku

Prior to our trip I read a lot about the different areas of Tokyo trying to work out where would be the best place to stay. Because it is such an immense place it wasn’t immediately clear to me which area of town would best suit our needs. I wasn’t sure I should pick blindly, so I picked somewhere I had heard of before. I picked the Park Hyatt Tokyo from the 2003 movie Lost In Translation. Yep! I chose our hotel based on a movie. It turned out to not only be one of the nicest and loveliest places I have ever stayed, but also one of the friendliest!

#thankyouwikipediaThe Park Hyatt is located in the Shinjuku Park Tower which is the second tallest building in Shinjuku. The hotel occupies floors 39 – 52 providing spectacular views in all directions! Our room was on the 43rd floor! We were able to catch a glimpse of the elusive Mt. Fuji, but within 10 minutes it was gone. No wonder it has the nickname The Shy Mountain! That was the only time we saw Mt. Fuji the entire trip. I read that if you’re in good shape you can climb Mt. Fuji in one (very) long day. I’ve added that to my bucket list!

#yumThe rooms were decorated beautifully and were very spacious. When we arrived in the room there were toys and amenities just for the children and for all of us there was a lovely tray of strawberries on skewers with various dipping sauces. Another plus for the kids was the large heated pool located on the 47th floor! Don’t worry if you forgot your swimsuit… they’ll rent you one!

We ate at three different restaurants in the hotel and they were all excellent, but definitely on the pricey side. The breakfast was a buffet and in classic SimonStyle he was into trying the more unique items offered. He discovered he liked okayu or Japanese rice porridge quite a lot, its sort of like oatmeal (which of course he won’t eat at home). Unlike Americans the Japanese people don’t generally go out for breakfast. We discovered this one morning while doing our usual let’s wander around aimlessly for hours looking for food with no idea where we are going. So, if you like a traditional breakfast you might consider grabbing it in your hotel before you head out for the day!

Tsukiji District

#freshfishLike most tourists visiting Tokyo we made a trip to the famous Tsukiji Fish Market! The biggest fish market in the world, its famous for the fish auctions which take place there each morning at 5:30 am! We weren’t up for running to see a fish auction at what in my opinion amounts to the middle of the night, so we took our time and turned up at a more reasonable hour. There was still plenty going on by the time we got there and we didn’t feel that we had missed out on anything.

We spent the morning exploring all the different offerings, fish of course, but also spices, dried goods, vegetables, flowers, housewares and more! We sampled a number of different food items and  met a very nice man who tried to teach us a few Japanese words, and gave the boys bags of miniature dried shrimp to munch on. Yum?

Nō Wasabi Kudasai

#sushiTim knew of a tiny little sushi restaurant located right near the fish market and after seeing all that fresh fish for sale we were definitely ready for some lunch! A few things to keep in mind when eating in Japan:

  • The majority of restaurants in Japan specialize in only one type of food, i.e.You won’t find tempura, sushi and ramen in the same establishment.
  • Sushi isn’t less expensive in Japan.
  • It’s really hard to explain “no wasabi please” when you don’t speak Japanese

Once the kids realized all of the above they learned to just wipe off the wasabi and go for it. The variety of sushi offered was definitely more diverse in Japan and we had fun trying new things. Elliot’s favorite was salmon roe! Both my boys love Japanese food and on day one of the trip Simon made it his mission to not only eat in as many different types of restaurants as he could, but also that he wouldn’t use any “American” utensils, only the traditional Japanese utensils provided to him! That’s my kid!

Japan! Three days in Kyoto!

japaneseumbrellaTo say we all loved Kyoto would be an understatement. It’s a wondrous place, magical really! The history, the people, the food, the beauty… three days was definitely not enough. In true HilaryStyle I wanted to make the most of our time and we saw as many things as possible each day. We definitely needed that Shinkansen (bullet train) ride back to Tokyo just to get in a rest!

Our visit took place during the height of the cherry blossom season and finding accommodations even four months out was next to impossible! I highly recommend booking a room as soon as you know you’re going.

#watazenryokanWe stayed at the Kyoto Watazen Ryokan, which is a traditional style Japanese inn complete with tatami-matted rooms, communal baths, and in room meals. It is considered bad manners to enter the communal baths with any type of clothing on, so I was grateful our room had its own bathroom complete with tub, toilet and shower. Staying in the ryokan was quite a different experience and the kids really enjoyed it! When we arrived the room was made up like a little living room complete with table and cushions. Each evening while we were out and about our room would be transformed into a sleeping area with futons and blankets made up all in a row. We had a lot fun trying out the kimono style robes and other Japanese amenities provided.

The Kyoto Watazen Ryokan was a little bit tired, but the people were incredibly friendly and the service was perfect. It is located in an excellent area of Kyoto within walking distance to many sites!

Day One

Nishiki Market

#octopuslollipopWithin walking distance from our ryokan was the lovely Nishiki market! A fabulous place filled with stall after stall of beautifully displayed food, spices, utensils and more. Though many of the things on display were a complete mystery to us we had a lot of fun and sampled quite a few of them. Octopus on a stick wasn’t on that list! All of us really enjoyed wandering through the market and it was definitely worth visiting!

Kiyomizu-dera

#kiyomizuderaKiyomizu-dera is a Buddhist temple which was built around 780. It is a UNESCO World Heritage site. Most of the year the temple is only open in the daytime, but because we were visiting during cherry blossom season there were special evening hours. The gardens are illuminated and the effect of the lights on the thousands of pink and white cherry tree blossoms is breathtakingly beautiful. The gardens are also lit in the autumn when the maple leaves begin to change. The main temple building is incredibly large and sits precariously suspended over the hillside on which it is perched. Incredibly the main hall and stage were built entirely without nails! There are lovely views of Kyoto in the distance. There are many buildings on the site and we were able to wander through the gardens and among the buildings, but due to our nighttime visit we weren’t able to go inside.

Day Two

Hiring A Guide

#kenzosatoDeciding what to see in new places can be challenging and while we do make a general outline of what we might want to see I usually don’t like to reserve tickets or book tours ahead.  We like the ability to change our minds if need be. However, I made an exception in Kyoto. Not only did we have a language barrier to contend with, but we also had very limited time in Kyoto. I wanted to make sure we didn’t miss anything worthwhile and at the same time we would get a general lay of the land. This made such a difference on day three when we were again on our own!

Booking in the high season meant that we had to hire the guide for a minimum of six hours, but they were great about working with me on an itinerary that was family friendly and met our family’s individual needs.

Our guide was an incredibly friendly man named Kenzo Sato. He is a native of the area and had been giving tours for seven years. We all really enjoyed his company and I think the feeling was mutual! The day before we set out I had compiled a list of places I definitely had to see while in Kyoto and many of them turned out to be on Kenzo’s list!

#kenzoslunchHe not only planned our itinerary, but arranged transportation from place to place and took us to one of his favorite restaurants for lunch. Before we parted ways at the end of what was a fabulous day our guide was kind enough to go over my ideas for day three.

How did we find our guide? Lonely Planet! I was reading their Kyoto guide and I discovered that the author Chris Rowthorn operates an independent tour company! How perfect! The book is great, so the tour company will be too! And it was!

Fushimi Inari-Taisha

#5000toriigatesFushimi Inari-Taisha is just one of around 80,000 Shinto shrines throughout Japan. Amazing! I am sure there are many beautiful ones. However, I doubt many people will disagree with my opinion that this one really stands out as something particularly special! It’s famous for the literally thousands of vermilion torii gates lining the pathways which lead you through the woods and to the top of Inari Mountain. There are many smaller shrines along the way and at the top. It takes about two hours to get to the top and while it is a steady climb it’s not terribly difficult and even Elliot had no trouble. Along the way there are a few places to stop and get a bite to eat or a drink.

Once you reach the top you can either go back the way you came or head down the backside of the mountain which is much quieter with less foot traffic. It is still very beautiful, but there aren’t as many torii gates. We walked through some natural bamboo forests and came out into a lovely residential neighborhood.

Ema

Torii gate ema

When visiting Shinto shrines you will find stands with little square plaques of wood or other shapes called ema. They are available for purchase. The idea is that you can write your wish on it and leave it there in the hopes that the deity of the shrine will grant your wish. All types of wishes are made. We purchased one, but instead of making a wish we had Kenzo write our names on it in Japanese and we brought it home to hang on our christmas tree.

Tofuku-ji Temple and Tofuku-ji Zen Garden

#We were able to walk through residential neighborhoods on our way to visit the Tofukuji Temple. The gardens here were incredibly beautiful and a real contrast to the simple beauty of the grounds outside the walls. Each side of the building has a different type of garden. We didn’t spend much time here, but it is quite an impressive sight and definitely worth a look! I would love to come back here too see the autumn leaves which it is known for.

This Zen temple is the oldest and largest in Kyoto and the Sanmon gate, a national treasure, is the oldest Zen main gate in Japan.

Yasaka Pagoda

#pagodaLocated near Kiyomizu-dera the Yasaka Pagoda is all that’s left of the Hokanji Temple. It’s quite an impressive sight, but due to time constraints we weren’t able to go inside. It dates back to 589!

Chion-in Temple

#chionongardensThe Chion-in Temple was under construction during our visit, so we were unable to go inside, but we were able to wander the temple grounds. The temple bell is gigantic weighing 79 tons! It is a Japanese custom to ring all the city’s bells 108 times at midnight on New Year’s Eve! This giant bell is no exception even though it takes an entire team of monks to ring it!

Shoren-in Temple

 #shoreintempleShoren-in Temple located a short distance from Chion-in Temple was an incredibly tranquil and lovely place. The gardens were spectacular and if you have a chance they are open for nighttime viewing. If you make an offering you can ring the temple bell and with a little help from Kenzo, Elliot was happy to do so!

Gion District

#geishaThe Gion District is a well-known Geisha district in Kyoto and I had read in my Lonely Planet guide that Shinbashi-dōri in Gion is the most beautiful street in all of Asia. I was determined to see it! I haven’t seen a lot of Asia, so I don’t have a lot to compare it with, but I can say it was definitely one of the most beautiful streets we saw while in Japan! In recent times traditional Japanese attire has become more popular with the younger generation so you do see a lot of people dressed in kimonos, seeing an actual Geisha is more rare as they don’t tend to just hang out on the street. We did “catch” sight of one on her way somewhere!

Day Three

Kinkaku-ji Temple of the Golden Pavilion

#templeofthegoldenpavilionKinkaku-ji temple is one of the most popular buildings in Japan and it absolutely deserves to be! Not only is it located in a stunningly beautiful setting, but the top two floors of the building are covered in gold leaf! Yep! The outer walls are entirely covered in gold! Due to its extreme popularity you should expect large crowds, but if you are patient you can get some pretty great photos!

Ginkaku-ji Temple of the Silver Pavilion

#silverpavilionGinkaku-ji was built by the grandson of the Shogun who owned Kinkaku-ji. It was give the name Silver Pavilion because it was eventually supposed to be covered in silver foil. This was never realized and the temple has remained “unfinished”. The gardens here are stunning with a variety of features including a sand garden, moss gardens and a wooded area.

The Philosophers Walk

#philosopherswalkThe Philosophers Walk is a pedestrian path that follows a cherry-tree-lined canal in Kyoto it’s very close to Ginkaku-ji and other sights. It’s especially beautiful during the cherry blossom season. There are a number of worthwhile shops and restaurants nearby which we poked in and out of. I picked up a few neat little souvenirs to bring home.

Eating in Kyoto

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We really enjoyed the food in Kyoto! I wish I could tell you which restaurants we liked best, but the truth is that we almost never knew the name of anywhere we ate. I will say that I can’t think of even one place where we didn’t enjoy the meal! Just take a chance!

My New Bike!

#gettingmyselfoutthereI got a new bicycle!

I know to most people this isn’t exactly exciting news, but I’m pretty happy about it! Actually, I’m more than happy! I feel like a kid at Christmas simply because I GOT A NEW BICYCLE!

It’s not a road bike exactly or a mountain bike, but rather a cruising around town type of bike. It even has a cup holder!

I had been thinking about it for a while, but wasn’t sure if I’d use it regularly enough to justify the purchase. The last time I really rode a real bicycle (other than my spin bike) was about 15 years ago pre-kids. And after a few near misses out on the road Tim not so casually mentioned I wasn’t too good at it.

He wasn’t wrong.

Anyway, then Simon, our older son, came along and that was that…

Here I am 15 year’s later and I’m ready to try riding a bike again. I’m still not good at it. So, what changed?

We live in a different place now, a very bicycle friendly type of town, but that’s not it, I’ve been here 7+ years. People here have super cool bikes with baskets and saddlebags and all sorts of gear, but, nope that’s not it. My older son rides his bike to school everyday along with about 500 other kids, not an exaggeration, and my little guy recently learned to ride his bicycle, but that’s not exactly it either. There’s seriously no place to park anywhere downtown, and that’s not it either, although maybe it should be!

#can'tmissmeMy bike is orange! My red helmet has white polka dots! There’s a bell! The basket comes on and off and I picked a powder blue one! The sun and breeze on my face, smiles from other “cyclists”…

It’s the small stuff!

#cupholder

I’m taking the time to appreciate all the little things! Not that I didn’t before, but 2015 has been such a tough year full of many difficult challenges for not only myself, but for many of my loved ones as well. Serious illness, injury, job stuff, family stuff, money stuff, marriage stuff and the list goes on. But I’m not letting them get me down, Nope! That’s not HilaryStyle! I’m going to enjoy all the small moments that help us get through the big tough ones… and this new bike is going to help me do it!

Hope to see you out there…

Japan Tips For First Time Visitors

Having traveled extensively in the United States and Europe, the boys and were excited to visit Japan. A lifelong dream, it turned out to be everything I had hoped for and more!  We all agreed it was the best family vacation we’d ever been on and the trip of a lifetime!

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I won’t pretend the idea of traveling to a place where we wouldn’t be able to understand the language or even recognize the letters wasn’t a bit nerve-wracking, but this would be a completely new experience! A true adventure! We knew everything might seem and feel different, but that was part of the excitement. In many ways it was what made this trip so magical!

#noideawhatitsays

Unlike many western countries you won’t find that a lot of people speak English. In fact just the opposite, however we didn’t find this to be a problem and with the exception of one funny incident in a restaurant where we paid way too much we got along just fine!  We learned to say a few basic words before we left and did our best to use them whenever we could!

When To Go

#holycherryblossomsAfter 15 years of talking about going to Japan we wanted to make sure we got it right! We had 10 days to explore and decided on two cities, Tokyo and Kyoto. We determined the best time of year to visit would be spring, so we could see the cherry trees in bloom.

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Yoyogi Park Tokyo Shibuya

If we ever get a chance to go back I’d love to see the autumn leaves which are also known to be breathtaking! Tokyo has well over 50 major neighborhoods and they’re all special, so we split our Tokyo time between two neighborhoods Shinjuku and Ginza with an additional 3 nights in Kyoto. If you’re planning to go during cherry blossom season I highly suggest booking everything as early as possible and for the best choice of hotels I recommend booking at least 6 months in advance!

Getting Around

Planes/Trains

minipilotsWe flew into Narita Airport which is, depending on the mode of transportation you choose, 60 – 90 minutes from Tokyo. After researching trains, buses and taxis we found taking the train to be the best and most convenient option for us. We took the JR Narita Express which is covered by the Japan Rail Pass. The taxi was by far the most expensive option as you’ll have traffic to contend with on your way into the city.

Do keep in mind that the lines to get through customs upon arrival can be quite long. Three hours after we landed we finally made it to our hotel.

Shinkansen

If you’re planning to visit more than one city on your trip I strongly recommend you consider the Japan Rail Pass. The JR Pass must be purchased prior to arriving in the country as they are only available to non-residents of Japan visiting for tourism. The most economical way to get from city to city they can also be used in city on certain train lines and for transport from the airport and back. They are offered in 7, 14 and 21 day options.

Purchasing the JR Pass is easy. We purchased ours through a local travel agency who specializes in Asian travel. It can take a few weeks, so contact them as soon as you’ve decided on your travel dates.

When you arrive at the airport take your JR Pass vouchers to the JR Pass Office where they will be exchanged for the actual passes. The people were incredibly helpful, friendly and much to our relief they spoke english. We were able to get all the information we needed to catch the JR Express into the city as well as information about taking the bullet train (Shinkansen) to Kyoto.

Depending on what cities you’re planning to visit you might want to look into reserved seats on the Shinkansen as well as information about the different stations. Keep in mind that the trains always leave on time. Plan on being on the platform a few minutes prior to whatever time you are expecting the train to arrive or you will miss it.

What would have been an 8 hour drive to Kyoto was only a 2 hour 20 minute bullet train ride. If you’re hungry there are light refreshments on the trains, though at first, due to the language barrier, we were a little shy about ordering from the refreshment cart. Eventually hunger and curiosity got the better of us and we were able to point at what we wanted, which worked out fine.

Taxis

br7tbWe trained back and forth to the airport and to Kyoto, but found we didn’t use them much within the actual cities. We chose to take taxis from place to place. This isn’t the most economical way to travel, but it’s very convenient and a great way to see a lot of the city.

Hailing and using taxis in Japan is quite different from any other city I’ve been to. While hailing the cab is the same, there are some other major differences. For example, you don’t actually open the taxi door by yourself. It’s opened and closed remotely by the driver. It took us quite a while to get used to this, and it’s considered poor manners to open and close the door yourself unless you exit or enter the vehicle from the right side.

#Ginkakuji
Gardens of Ginkaku-ji Temple of the Silver Pavilion Kyoto

If you don’t speak Japanese it’s perfectly acceptable to give them your destination address on a piece of paper or alternatively we showed them where we wanted to go on the map. Tipping is not common in Japan and in most situations it can be considered offensive. However, if you decide to tip the driver it’s appropriate to round up when paying the fare.

Green means stop and red means go! Yep, a red symbol lets you know the cab is available and a green one lets you know it’s occupied.

 

Helpful Words

Japanese is an incredibly complex language, but we did learn a few words, and really enjoyed trying to speak to people as much as we could. Our attempts, though somewhat botched, were really appreciated. It’s always nice to be able to say hello and thank you and excuse me was extremely helpful in many situations!

Arigato = thank you

Arigatougozaimasu = Formal Thank You

Sumimasen = Excuse Me

Ohayougozaimasu = Good Morning

Konnichiwa = Good Afternoon

Sayonara = Goodbye

Other posts about Japan

Japan! Kawaii Means Cute & Other Japanese Cultural Phenomena!
Japan! Tokyo… No Wasabi Kudasai!
Japan! Experiencing Hanami!
Japan! Tokyo… A City of Many Contrasts
Japan! Three days in Kyoto!
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Sunset from the 43rd Floor Park Hyatt Shinjuku Tokyo

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New York! Visiting Lady Liberty!

#LadylibertyI’ve been to New York many times in the past 26 years and yet, until this past July I had never taken the time to visit the Statue of Liberty. I guess it was just something I always thought I’d do “next time”. Recently when thinking about places to take the boys within the United States Lady Liberty came to mind. She is after all one of America’s most well known symbols! Our trip to New York to celebrate my parents 50th Wedding Anniversary seemed like the perfect opportunity because as it turned out only one of us had ever been to Liberty Island before!

While I am glad to say I finally “saw” the Statue of Liberty, I think once was enough for this group.  Neither of my boys loved the experience and Elliot gave it a 2 out of 10. There just wasn’t enough to hold his interest. My first impression upon seeing her up close was that she seemed smaller than I thought she would be. I guess all those movie shots of people seeing her from the deck of the boat as they sailed toward the American Dream made her seem larger to me. Not that she isn’t pretty darn large at 305 feet and 1 inch! Anyway…

Here’s the scoop on our visit!

Do keep in mind that Crown and Pedestal tickets sell out many months in advance, so go online and purchase them as soon as you decide you’re going. We purchased our tickets in early May for an early July visit and the Crown tickets were already sold out through the end of July. However, we were able to get Pedestal access which as it turned out was perfect for our group due to various ages and physical restrictions.

A few things to consider if you are able to get tickets to visit the Crown.

  • The age and physical ability of the members in your group.
  • Elevator service ends at the Pedestal and you’ll have to walk the rest of the way.
  • It is 377 steps from the main lobby to the top of the Crown, or 22 flights of stairs.
  • Anyone visiting the crown must be able to walk up at least 162 steps on a confined spiral staircase.
  • The only restrooms are located in the main lobby!

Tickets include round a round trip ferry ride to Liberty Island and Ellis Island as well. You can catch the ferry from two places Battery Park, at the southernmost tip of Manhattan, and Liberty State Park in Jersey City, New Jersey. Private vessels may not dock at either Ellis or Liberty Islands.

We caught the ferry at the Battery Park location. It’s an easy walk from the subway station. I was a little surprised at how much the ferry rocked back and forth and found that I was most comfortable on the top level with no roof overhead. It was in the direct sunlight, but I needed the open air and the plus side was of course the spectacular views!

Before getting on the boat you will pass through a number of security check points, almost like going through airport security. You’ll also do this before you enter the Pedestal. There are guided tours available but an audio tour is Included with your ticket. We’ve taken many audio tours and didn’t feel like this one was very user friendly.

On the main floor you’ll find the original torch which we stopped to look at, but we skipped the Liberty Museum and went straight to the main attraction! The Pedestal offers panoramic views of Ellis Island, New York, New Jersey and the New York Harbor. There is an elevator and half of our group took advantage of that while the other half walked up. The walkway around the Pedestal is very narrow and very crowded, so after taking a few photos from each side we went back down.

I thought maybe we would visit the museum on our way back down, but by that time everyone was hungry so we decided to get lunch instead. We took a few more photos of Lady Liberty and then decided it was time to go as the line for the return ferry can be up to an hour long. Some of our group went on to visit Ellis Island and the Immigration Museum, but my boys were done so we skipped that.

A few days later we had an opportunity to see Lady Liberty again while out boating with some friends! I loved seeing her this way… in fact, it seemed much more impressive to me than the more formal route we took earlier in the week.

New York! Shopping!

I think I may have mentioned in some of my previous posts that I absolutely love to travel! But I also love to shop! What could be better than shopping while traveling? A perfect combination! No?!

It’s a small world and with the invention of online shopping and chain stores on every corner it’s getting harder and harder to find places to shop that are unique. So why waste time shopping in a new city when you can find anything you need or want from the comfort of the living room couch? To that I say, “Where is the fun in that?”  You see, for me, it’s not really about getting a new item, well not entirely anyway… what it’s really about is the experience, wandering the neighborhood, poking in and out of different types of shops, discovering new places  and meeting the people.

mercer-street-soho-new-yorkOn our most recent trip we chose to dedicate an entire day to shopping in SoHo, but in a city like New York there are endless places to shop and we managed to fit in the Meatpacking District and Madison Avenue on this trip as well. 🙂

SoHo is shorthand for South of Houston and it is on the list of National Historic Landmarks. The borders are Broadway west to Sixth Avenue, and Houston Street south to Canal Street. Within those borders you’ll find just about every retailer you’ve ever heard of and many you haven’t! There are also many flagship stores and one of a kind places too. You’ll find clothing, shoes shops galore, furniture, art, housewares and more! Oh and did I forget to mention the chocolate shops, amazing restaurants and hotels who are also located here! With its cobblestone streets, cast-iron buildings, designer shops and oh so cool vibe, SoHo is  unlike any other place in New York. Don’t miss it!

Keep in mind most shops in SoHo don’t open until 11:00 am, but stay open later which we discovered when we showed up ready to shop at 10:00 am on a Monday! No worries, we stopped and had a coffee while we waited…

Don’t laugh but before we’d even made it two blocks we’d already visited Orla Kiely, Fiorentini & Baker, Ted Baker, Paige and James Perse! My favorite right now is Rag & Bone, so that was our next stop and then of course we wanted to make time for, Desigual, Moleskine, Sam Edelman and Camper Shoes. We were also excited to discover a Sweaty Betty and a Miz Mooz Shoes along the way! By this time it was already 2:00 pm and although we’d made a sizable dent in our pocketbooks we’d hardly seen any of the neighborhood!

We spent a lot of time on Mercer Street, but this handy map of SoHo stores and services might help you plan your itinerary a little better! Not that there are many, but if you’re looking for a bargain your best bet is Broadway where you’ll find more mainstream shops, like Lucky Brand, Banana Republic, and Guess?!

Bleecker Street is another great shopping area… It’s actually a great street to walk down if you’re heading to SoHo from the Meatpacking district or vice versa. Although you may get sidetracked and never make it to your destination! There are many fun one-of-a-kind boutiques along Bleecker Street as well as some big names like M.A.C. and James Perse. You’ll find the famous Magnolia Bakery here and there are many great bars and restaurants as well. We used to come here a lot when we lived in Hoboken as the PATH station is nearby on Christopher Street and it’s one of my favorite spots.

The Meatpacking District is home to the Highline, The Standard Hotel and the new Whitney as well as many great shops:  Diane Von Furstenberg, Alice & Olivia, Joie, Michael Stars, Theory and Intermix and the list goes on… Also nearby you’ll find Christian Louboutin, a Barney’s Coop and Alexander McQueen. If you’re more interested in picking up a new piece of art there are a number of galleries here and often you’ll find artists selling their wares right on the sidewalk!

We not only found a lot of fun new treasures on this trip, but we met a number of really fun people along the way! In fact we had so much fun with the shopgirl in the Alice & Olivia store that we exchanged numbers! Turns out she and I both grew up about 45 minutes from each other on the West Coast! Small world indeed! Per her request I sent her a photo of me in my new outfit the first time I wore it!

Remember this is by no means a comprehensive list! New York has no shortage of neighborhoods in which to wander and shop, these are just a few of my personal favorites!

Crazy Hair Day! Bad hair Day! No Hair Day?

Do you ever think about your hair? You probably do. But, do you ever think about how much of a role it plays in your everyday life? You probably don’t.

From the moment we wake up and push our hair out of our faces until the end of the day when we fall back into bed our hair plays a major role in our day. We wash it, brush it, style it, talk about it, get it cut, dye it, buy products for it, compliment others on theirs and they yours, we touch it, put a hat on it, brush it back, run our fingers through it… you get the idea.  There are even entire days devoted to hair!  Crazy hair day, bad hair day, good hair day…

Yep, hair, it’s a big deal!  Even if you don’t do much to your hair, there’s a high probability that you like having some.  So, what if one day you just didn’t? What would you do? How would you cope?

IMG_0001For as long as I can remember hair loss has been a topic in my family. My grandmother on my mother’s side had a wig, in fact I don’t know of a time when she didn’t. She would visit a few times a year and I have vivid memories of her taking off her wig and setting it on the bathroom counter. She didn’t have a wig stand or anything she would just plunk it down. She had a little bit of hair underneath and surprisingly it was still quite dark, but there wasn’t much. She never seemed bothered by it and us kids weren’t either. To us that’s just how she was. We loved her with or without hair.

She once told me that she made sure to take her wig off in front of us so we wouldn’t be shocked to see her with no hair. That was the gift she gave us. We never knew if the fact that she wore a wig for most of her life bothered her or made her feel in any way self-conscious. She was always more concerned about our feelings. In fact it was such a non-issue I never thought to talk about it with her. In hindsight I wish I would have. Grandma had three wigs which she rotated through, the everyday hairdo, the special occasion hairdo and the just woke up hair do!

Grandma isn’t the only woman in our family who suffered hair loss. My mom also had a similar thing happen to her. It didn’t happen overnight, but over the years her hair became thinner and thinner. As I mentioned above having hair is something we just take for granted until one day we can’t.

Then came Anton! He changed her life! He’s an amazing person and our family can’t say enough about him! He comes from a long line of wig makers. In fact the family has been making wigs since Napoleon’s time and even made wigs for the Vienna Opera!

While he has clients like mom with partial hair additions, his unique specialty is making wigs for women going through chemotherapy treatments. He makes the wigs out of their own hair! In one day! Incredible! Of course visiting him as soon as possible after the start of treatment makes for the best possible outcome.

Mom has been going to Anton for over 15 years and I think I can safely say that he’s changed her life! You wouldn’t know from looking at her that the thick beautiful head of hair on her head didn’t actually grow there! People are always surprised when they find out.

The wigs that Anton makes can be washed, brushed and styled just the same as the hair that grows directly from your head! Fascinating! They are so natural looking that once even though I knew the person was a client of Anton’s I forgot and asked, “Did you get a haircut?”

It’s such a wonderful service I can’t say enough about it. It would be great if we could just say, “oh, it’s only hair.” Honestly, that is the farthest thing from the truth. We often identify ourselves by our outward appearance and others do too. So and so has blond hair or long hair, or spiky hair… whether your hair falls out from chemo or for another reason being able to carry on and feel like yourself is an invaluable gift. One less thing to worry about when you look in the mirror in the morning and it’s not a stranger looking back.

If you’re interested in learning more about Anton here is his contact information:

Anton’s Hair Company
13240 NE 20th, Suite 11
Bellevue, WA 98005
kswigmaker@aol.com
425.562.7979

Packing… What to wear over there!

Now that you’ve decided to go somewhere its time to pack!

#bonvoyageI don’t know about you, but while I have a great love of traveling I don’t really enjoy the packing. I find it stressful trying to decide what to bring… What will the weather be like? Do I have the right shoes for walking? What if I forget something? How many outfits can I fit in the suitcase? Will I feel comfortable and look good in what I brought? Will I look good in the travel photos? HA! HA!

To make matters worse… We also have packing rules in our family. We can all bring ONE european size carry-on each! No matter how long the trip, no matter the time of year. That’s right, the same amount of space whether it be winter or summer. In fact we only took one carry-on our honeymoon for BOTH of us, that’s right we shared the same carry-on suitcase for 12 days!

Thankfully, we don’t have to share anymore, a girl’s got to put her foot down, and over the years I’ve even gotten quite good at making it all fit into my own small sized suitcase! Okay, sometimes I can’t make it all fit, but that’s what the kids suitcases are for… sneaking in a few items here and there!

My Packing Method

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About three days before the trip I start pulling clothing from my closet and dressers. I pull everything I currently love to wear and lay it out on my bed. I always pull out too much in this first go around. There will probably be multiple go arounds!

Packing

Next, I make outfits out of everything I’ve laid out weeding out the items that I don’t feel comfortable letting someone else wash and/or that don’t match everything else as I go. Space is very limited, so making sure it’s not wasted on items that need to be handled with care, will only be worn once, need to be dry cleaned or don’t match everything else isn’t an option.

The following list is everything I was able to fit into my European sized carry-on suitcase for a 14 day trip. Of course the items will vary according to the time of year and location, but in this case our upcoming destination will be for the most part warm.  I’ve tried to allow for cool evenings and a few days in London where the weather can be questionable. Keep in mind the dimensions of a European sized carry-on suitcase are 22in x 18in x 10in, in other words, small!

Packing List:

  • Two  light weight cardigans
  • Two lightweight dresses (one sleeveless, one long sleeve)
  • Two Scarves
  • Four Long sleeve t-shirts
  • Two Short Sleeve T-shirts
  • Two pair of Shorts (One denim and one olive-green)
  • One travel skirt
  • One cropped Jean
  • One skinny Jean
  • One pair of pants
  • Four Layering tanks
  • Eight Sleeveless Shirts
  • One Swimsuit
  • Two pair of socks (for the plane)
  • Three pair of shoes (two flip-flop one closed toe)
  • Two bras
  • Fourteen pair of underwear
  • * PJs are included only if there is room after everything else is in the suitcase (in this case they aren’t included)

Items that I never put into my suitcase for international travel

  • Jacket/Thick Sweatshirt
  • An extra pair of underwear and one pair of socks in my purse in case of an emergency
  • Makeup and medicines NEVER go into my suitcase!

I always assume that I won’t have time for shopping and bring everything I might need. After all I am traveling with three boys and no matter what they say, the chances of them waiting patiently while I go shopping are for the most part slim…

But what about the laundry?

I try to pack for about 7 days and hope to wash about halfway through the trip. Of course some items will have to be worn a few different times. This is where layering comes in! In the event that time or location can’t get me to a laundry service I always make sure to have some extra underwear… a lot of it!

If we pack for only seven days what do we do for the rest of the trip? There are multiple options for clothes washing: hotel laundry services, hand washing, and the Laundromat. We’ve tried them all!

The laundry service in hotels is surely the most convenient, but it’s so pricy you might consider throwing out your dirty clothing and buying new, it might actually be cheaper.

Another option is to bring laundry detergent packets with you and hand wash the items yourself in the sink or bathtub of your hotel room. I’ve tried this method and it absolutely doesn’t work. I don’t care what anyone says it just can’t get clean enough! However, it does take forever to dry and gets really crispy! Besides, who wants to waste time hand washing when there are sights to see!

Lastly, and the method I prefer most is to drop the clothing at a nearby laundry mat. We’ve done this multiple times in many countries and it is in my opinion the best method! Simply load up your suitcase or suitcases and wheel them to the closest laundry service. The hotel concierge will be able to assist you in locating the nearest one. In Scotland, not only did they wash, dry and fold all of our laundry, but they delivered the clean items back to us at our hotel! YAY!

Remember! Don’t bring anything you don’t want washed AND dried!

Happy Packing & Safe Travels!

Where in the World?

I’ve definitely got the travel bug and I’m doing my very best to pass it along to my kids! If I’m not traveling then I’m already thinking about where I might like to go next! This drives Tim crazy as he travels extensively for work and doesn’t understand why I always want to leave home when all he wants to do is get back to it. In fairness to me… ha ha, he traveled quite a bit before we met and has been around the world many times for work, so he’s already seen many of the world’s amazing sights… It’s only fair that we should see them too, right?! And of course it is educational for the children…

Don’t get me wrong, we’ve had the good fortune to visit many amazing places as a family, it’s just that I hope to visit many more!

“I Like trying new foods and hot chocolates!” – Elliot

Now that some time has passed since our last big vacation I’ve been trying to work out where we should go next. There are a number of places I’d like to check off my list, but there are many factors to be considered when deciding where to go. How much time vacation time do we have? Is it in the budget? Do the kids have any time off from school? Should we stay closer to home, or venture far? If we decide to go far, where in the world should we go? Should it be somewhere new or a repeat destination? Is time of year a factor for that destination? These are just a few of the questions we discuss when thinking about how to spend our vacation time.

All of the above were definite factors when we had the opportunity to visit Japan last year. We had attempted this trip a few other times, but something always got in the way, money, a major earthquake, timing, you get the idea. After 15 years of dreaming about it, we were finally making it happen! This was to be the fulfillment of a lifelong dream and we just had to do it right! Weather and time of year were big factors on this particular vacation. I think all four of us can agree that it was the trip of a lifetime! Thanks, kids for having spring break during the Cherry Blossom season!

“The culture, the history, just being there!” – Simon

The Internet is a great source of information when thinking about future destinations and I do a lot of research online, but I love reading printed travel guides! I’m a big fan of Lonely Planet, but Fodor’s, TimeOut and DK Eyewitness are also great! In fact it was reading the About the Author section in my Lonely Planet guide that helped me find the amazing private tour guide we hired in Kyoto. I usually bring the smaller guides along on our journeys and read them on the plane and in the hotel room at night. Sometimes we leave them behind in the room for future travelers, but more often than not I schlep them back home with me. Lonely Planet has a great series for younger children called The Not For Parents Guide to… definitely worth checking out!

Here are some of our most recent destination considerations:

  1. Ireland
  2. Croatia
  3. Japan (repeat)
  4. Portugal
  5. Cambodia/Thailand

So… Our latest adventure begins in late September! We’re going somewhere new and far! The weather will be great and the crowds will be thin! School is in session, but the lessons learned and experiences had will be many!

And the winner is…

Portugal!