Brides & Wedding Traditions From Around the World

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June is  wedding season, so…

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I’ve been married for 16 years, but the romantic in me still gets excited when I see a bride, and for some reason even more so when I’m traveling! Maybe because someone once told me it’s good luck to see a bride? Or because I still remember how happy I was on my wedding day and I’m reminded of those feelings? Or maybe because I know what’s coming… ha ha!

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Wedding traditions vary from country to country, but apparently the lure of the white dress is universal, as I’ve seen them everywhere from New Orleans, Louisiana to Tokyo, Japan!

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I always try to snap a photo when I see brides, and the following photos are collected from the past few years of travel. Please do keep in mind that these photos are usually taken from a distance, a moving car, or a hotel window, as I wasn’t actually invited to any of these weddings. Along with the photos I’ve included some fun facts and wedding traditions from around the globe. Of course I’m including my own wedding photo… Let’s hope all these lovely couples are still as happily married as I am!

Toledo, Spain

This photo was taken in 2015 at Ayuntamiento Plaza just outside the Catherdral of Toledo, one of the more beautiful cathedrals I’ve ever visited. Toledo is known as the City of Three Cultures, which includes Muslims, Christians and Jews.

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Popular in many parts of the world Spanish brides also throw their boquets with the idea that the one to catch it will be the next to marry.  A Spanish variation on the same theme is to pin an upsidedown corsage on unmarried female guests. If the corsage is lost during the festivities that lucky lady will be the next to marry!

Tokyo, Japan

This photo was taken in 2014 during breakfast in lobby of the Tokyo Penninsula Hotel. It was quite early in the morning, so I was somewhat surprised to hear wedding music and then see a bride appear, but I got this picture just as she was almost out of sight!

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Quick Change

In Japan the bride will often wear multiple outfits during the ceremony and reception, as many as four, sometimes ending with a western style party gown, which signifies her return to everyday life. Guests at a Japanese wedding will give gifts of money to the bride and groom in small paper packets called mizuhiki.

London, England

I took this photo in 2013 during one of our many visits to London. We had just finished the Tower Bridge Experience, which by the way is a fascinating attraction! This seems like a lovely, although crowded, place for wedding photos.

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Royal Icing

Many of today’s most popular white wedding traditions can be attributed to Queen Victoria. It was Queen Victoria’s wedding cake, that first used the icing known today as “royal” icing. Hence the name royal… I love that!

Paris, France

This shot was taken in 2016 outside Notre Dame de Paris just after we climbed to the top!

Paris France

After our 2016 visit to La Madeleine, a beautiful church commissioned by Napoleon, I decided to take a quick lap around the building, and came upon this lovely bridal couple!

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Wedding Cake

A croquembouche is a tower of delicious cream filled pastries held together with delicate strings of caramel. These delicious towers are often served at a French wedding. I read that the idea originates from guests bringing small cakes and other treats to wedding celebrations and piling them high on the table.

Amsterdam, Holland, The Netherlands

Having only just arrived in Amsterdam during our 2016 Europe trip, we were on our way to the hotel when I looked out and saw this bridal party! Our taxi was speeding past and I stuck my camera out the window!

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Bridal Showers

A popular tradition in the United States, the bridal shower originated in Holland. When a Dutch bride’s family was too poor to provide a dowry, or if the father did not approve of the match her friends would “shower” her with gifts that were often included in the dowry.

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Traditional Dutch Wedding Clogs

Belfast, Northern Ireland

This photo was taken during our 2016 visit to Belfast, from inside the Titanic Belfast Museum, which is apparently a popular wedding venue. We loved our visit to this museum, and what an amazing backdrop!

Belfast Northern Ireland

A traditional Irish wedding toast:

“Friends and relatives, so fond and dear, ’tis our greatest pleasure to have you here. When many years this day has passed, fondest memories will always last. So we drink a cup of Irish mead and ask God’s blessing in your hour of need.”

The guests respond: “On this special day, our wish to you, the goodness of the old, the best of the new. God bless you both who drink this mead, may it always fill your every need.“

New Orleans, Lousiana

This photo of a Second Line Parade was taken from my hotel window in 2016 at the Omni Royal Hotel on Royal Street in the French Quarter!

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Weddings in New Orleans have a special added flare, especially weddings in the French Quarter! The Bride and groom might arrive at their reception via horse drawn carriage, or by leading a second line parade preceded by a jazz band! Now that’s making an entrance!

Second Line Parade

Staying the French Quarter is always interesting, and no matter night or day, you never know what you might see when you look out your window!

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While second line parades stem from African American jazz funerals they have evolved to become part of many celebrations in New Orleans. The second line parade at a wedding signifies the befinning of the new life between the bride and groom. Don’t be surprised if you see one these cheerful wedding parades leading the entire wedding, guests and all, from the church to the reception.

This photo was taken during our 2015 visit from my hotel window at the Hyatt French Quarter in 2015.

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Ribbon Pulling

While I haven’t seen the ribbon pulling tradition in action, I find the idea fascinating. Similar in tradition to the bride tossing her boquet the cake’s frosting has “meaningful” charms hidden within, each one attached to a ribbon. Female guests pull the ribbons to find out their future fate. You might pull out the heart signifying true love, but then again you may get the button, symbolic for old maid…

Costa Mesa, California

This photo was taken just the other day while the boys and I were running errands and enjoying treats from Susie Cakes at the South Coast Plaza Mall. While I don’t think I would chose this location for my wedding photos, I always enjoy seeing a happy wedding party!

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Did you know?

Los Angeles is the most popular city in California to get married? Popular wedding trends in the Golden State include eco-friendly ideas, rustic chic, farm fresh to table fare, and free form flower boquets.

Speaking of flowers… fellow blogger, Katy from Untold Morsels, had her wedding flowers wrapped up and gifted to her guests at the end of the reception! That’s a wedding favor I’d like to have, and eco-friendly too!

Seattle

This is a picture of my wedding photo because apparently I didn’t see the future of digital, and I turned down a cd with my wedding photos on it… hindsight is truly 20/20.

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If I had to do it over again, I’m only talking about the wedding folks, I might like to have a destination wedding! Maybe in one of these amazing places, or maybe I’d do everything exactly the same… Anyway… if you’re wondering, our wedding and reception took place in Downtown Seattle in the atrium of one of Tim’s favorite buildings, what can I say he’s an architect. Some of the traditions we included: Something old, new, borrowed and blue, a first dance, and cutting and eating the cake together.

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The Soundtrack Of My Life! Volumes 1 & 2…

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Have you ever walked into a room to do something, but then can’t remember what that something was. Happens to me all the time! However, when thinking about moments over the course of my life I have no trouble remembering the exact song that was playing at a given moment and who I was with when I heard it! I’ve started thinking of these songs as the “soundtrack of my life” and as far as soundtracks go, I’m pretty happy with it…

So, I’m Making You A Tape!

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Okay, I’m not making you a tape…There are many upsides to the digital music world, but sharing songs isn’t one of them and that’s too bad. The days of making someone a mixed tape are over. Was there a better way to “tell” someone how you were feeling?! Good or bad, giving someone a mixed tape allowed you to bare your soul without ever having to say anything at all.

Before I share my virtual mixed tape with you, let’s go over a few things…

What these songs are:

A representation of the people, places and moments that have made up my life. Including, early childhood, teenage angst, love found and lost, friendship, good times, bad times, spiky hair and padlock necklaces, my first concert, my first CD, independence, lullabies, wedding dances, my son’s first concert.

What these songs are not:

This list is not serious; it’s meant to be fun! This list is by no means comprehensive. It’s not a list of my favorite songs, and although some would probably make that list, there are a few on the list that I don’t even like. This isn’t a list of hits, obviously, though there are a few on here.

So here it is…

The Soundtrack Of My Life – Volume 1

  1. Space Oddity – David Bowie
  2. Cars – Gary Numan
  3. Major Tom – Peter Shilling
  4. The Warrior – Patty Smyth
  5. People Are People – Depeche Mode
  6. You Spin Me Round (Like A Record) – Dead Or Alive
  7. Sweetest Thing – U2
  8. Sometimes – Erasure
  9. Ringfinger – Nine Inch Nails
  10. Zombie Zoo – Tom Petty
  11. Holidays In The Sun – Sex Pistols
  12. Changes – David Bowie
  13. Time – Pink Floyd
  14. Forever Young – Alphaville
  15. Take On Me – a-ha
  16. Second Hand News – Fleetwood Mac
  17. White Wedding – Billy Idol
  18. My Way – Sid Vicious version
  19. A New England – Billy Bragg
  20. Mexican Radio – Wall of Voodoo
  21. Moonshadow – Cat Stevens
  22. You Can Close Your Eyes – James Taylor
  23. Please Please Please Let Me Get What I Want – The Smiths
  24. Brown Eyed Girl – Van Morrison
  25. Mr. Blue – Yaz

The Soundtrack Of My Life – Volume 2

  1. 19 – Old 97’s
  2. Just Like Heaven – The Cure
  3. Bit Part – The Lemonheads
  4. Nobody Knows Me – Lyle Lovett
  5. Chasing Cars – Snow Patrol
  6. The Way You Look Tonight – Frank Sinatra
  7. Johnny Cash – Ring Of Fire
  8. I’m Gonna Be (500 Miles) – The Proclaimers
  9. On Top Of Spaghetti – Tom Glazer
  10. I’m An Old Cowhand – Johnny Mercer
  11. Black Velveteen – Lenny Kravitz
  12. I Love It (I Don’t Care) – Icona Pop
  13. Lose Yourself – Eminem
  14. Stressed Out – Twenty One Pilots
  15. Feliz Navidad – Jose Feliciano
  16. Some Nights – Fun.
  17. Riptide – Vance Joy
  18. Hey Soul Sister – Train
  19. Call Me Maybe – Carly Rae Jepsen
  20. Here’s To The Halcyon – Old 97’s
  21. Here Comes Your Man – The Pixies
  22. Hoist The Colors – Pirates Of The Caribbean
  23. The Supersuckers – Pretty F****d Up
  24. Life On A Chain – Pete Yorn
  25. Payphone – Maroon 5
  26. Built To Spill – Car

As I finished writing this post my son asked me, “Will their be a volume 3?”

“Working on it…”